attraction.lab

Tests

Short questionnaires built from published instruments rather than invented for a magazine. Every one of them scores in your browser, asks for nothing, and says plainly what it cannot tell you.

Attachment style test

2 min

Sixteen statements scored on attachment anxiety and avoidance, the two dimensions the research actually uses.

Based on Brennan, Clark & Shaver (1998); Bartholomew & Horowitz (1991)

Conflict style test

3 min

Eighteen statements scored on how much you press and how much you retreat when a disagreement starts, plus a separate score for how harshly you argue.

Based on Christensen & Heavey (1990); Gottman & Levenson (1992)

Relationship satisfaction test

4 min

Twenty statements scored on satisfaction and on the three other measures that decide whether people stay — how good the alternatives look, how much is invested, and how committed you are.

Based on Rusbult, Martz & Agnew (1998); Le & Agnew (2003)

The rules these tests follow

  • No email, no account, no storage. Scoring happens in your browser and nothing you answer is transmitted. A test that holds your result hostage for an address is an email-capture form wearing a lab coat.
  • The instrument is named.Every test says which published work it is adapted from, and links it. If we shortened something, we say we shortened it rather than borrowing the original’s credibility.
  • You get the score, not just the label. Categories come from cutting continuous scales somewhere, and near the cut the label is close to arbitrary. Showing the number is the only honest way to hand one over.
  • Nothing here is a diagnosis. These are educational tools. If a pattern is causing you real distress, a qualified professional is the right next step, and the test will tell you so.